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Hey y’all! This is from my very good, very sexy friend Barbara Summer’s Eromaxx Blog on how to handle anal sex. It’s fantastic, so if you’ve always wanted to try anal, but are a bit nervous, here’s some advice to get you started (by the way this info works on both guys and girls :)):

Here is some important instruction for guys who want to have anal sex with girlfriend with no experiences with that. I know a lot of guy who like to have anal sex with girl better than regular vaginal sex. I met a lot of guys who prefer to have anal sex and they told me many times that is very hard for them to find girl who like to do it.

I also met a lot of girls who have a many very bad and scary experiences with that. I would like to give you some instructions what will help you to have fun and pleasure doing that. If you have a girlfriend who never do that before, it is perfect. It is only up to you how she will feel with that.

You have to show her how easy and nice it could be. If you have it done with other girl just few times, you have to be careful. You probably know already what your girlfriend likes, so start with that. If she likes for example pussy licking, go ahead and lick her pussy. When she will get relaxed and maybe will have orgasm, continue licking and touch also her asshole with your tongue. Make round moves with your tongue make that ass relaxed. Then try to stick your tongue in a bit.

If it works and your girl is relaxed, you can try to use fingers carefully. Take a lot of time with that, never just stick finger in, you have to play first! If she is relaxed it will probably be easy to stick your finger slowly in. When you have your finger in, try to move it slowly back and forward, you can also keep licking her pussy during that. Some girls can have very good orgasm from it.

If she can take this, better don’t do more. Just continue with another things like you always do. If she asks you to continue, stay be very careful and try more fingers in. Usually if girl can take easy three fingers in, she is ready and relaxed enough for cock. You have to pick position for it very carefully.

Don’t do it directly from behind, it can be too hard for the beginning. Try to do maybe in missionary position with her legs lifted up or in spoon position, it is I think one of the easiest positions for anal sex. Use oil based lube for it, they are the best. Watter based ones are definitely not good for anal sex. First touch her ass with your cock and play with her, then try to stick the top in very slowly.

If she is relaxed enough, will be easy. If she asks you to stop, you have to stop immediately even you are crazy to do it. Be patient and you will see it will works. Many girls don’t want to do that because they don’t know how to clean themselves. It is really not difficult. They can ask for supplies for it in sex shop.

They can also use the shower like porn stars do. You have to remove top of the shower to have only hose from it. Be very careful with watter, it has to be warm but no hot or too cold and also it cannot flow to fast! If everything is cool, girl can just clean her ass very easy with that, using shower and toilet. The best think is have it beside, but don’t worry, girls are very creative . Just leave her alone and give her time.

It is better to speak about anal sex before you want to try it, she will have more time to get ready. I wish you good luck with that and don forget to be very patient. Have fun! Barbara xxoo